No one told me...
It's not the first week in, even the first month year, or child.
A couple of years into parenting, and you realise. No one told me it would be like this.
Monday, 2 April 2018
HJ has been in our lives for 20 loud, colourful, cheeky months now.
While we had a tough beginning with Ada, her later years have been relatively easy, in the scheme of things. Never one to be the same as his sister, Hunter's beginning was a dream, and as he has grown and become affectionately known as #adventureboy, his later months have been a whole new level of full on.
Friday, 2 February 2018
I've been getting that 'look' from elderly ladies lately.
I'll be in the supermarket, probably with both kids. They are full of beans (or free countdown fruit for kids, more accurately) and I just want to whizz through and get the shop done. I'm in some sort of harried rush, multitasking with the list, the kids and the bags.
I walk past an elderly lady in the aisle and she will look at us. And I can see her eyes soften and her face go into a half smile. Sometimes she will say nothing, and sometimes she will make a passing comment about 'oh they are lovely' or 'oh it goes so fast.'
Friday, 17 November 2017
Today is world prematurity day.
|The first photo of Ada, born at 30 weeks|
Day like this one, as well as miscarriage awareness, always make me stop and pause. A lot can, and did, happen in the past 5 years, and while I am forever changed by the miscarriages and Ada's premature birth, they are now distant enough from me to no longer be a source of pain. Instead my experiences are a tool to help others.
Monday, 13 November 2017
Life has lost it's rhythm lately and instead has turned to speedy rushing with sudden stops and starts.
I've been feeling a bit lost, afloat, this year, trying to make family life work for us in a way that is not just rushing through life.
Our weeks have no consistency, which is mainly down to my work as a freelance NZSL interpreter and now, caker. The hours are flux and changing, which I knew when I got into both professions, but now with kids it is too hard to sustain.